Affective responsibility starts with you\u2014the rest is just a delivery of excuses. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t you get tired of seeing the same pattern on loop? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
That classic: \u201cThey didn\u2019t tell me what we were.\u201d<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Oh, baby, wake up! <\/p>\n\n\n\n Wolves don\u2019t give explanations\u2014I told you in another blog post. They didn\u2019t lie to you\u2014you wrote yourself a rom-com script and expected them to play the lead \ud83d\ude2e\u200d\ud83d\udca8<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cancel that love streaming service\u2014I wouldn\u2019t pay for it again, not even for the free trial haha <\/p>\n\n\n\n Yeah, it sounds harsh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n This isn\u2019t a church where you stay quiet\u2014you know you\u2019ll only read uncomfortable truths here. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s like a melody cutting through the noise. <\/p>\n\n\n\n One of my philosophies says:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIf something doesn\u2019t vibe with my frequency, I change the station without regrets.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ll never say something I don\u2019t feel or that experience can\u2019t back up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Gossip Sesh:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n This week, I escaped to the ranch..<\/p>\n\n\n\n To breathe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n To turn down the volume on humans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To let nature remind me that not everything runs on likes or insecurities dressed up as affection. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Here nothing can be forced \ud83d\udc9a<\/p>\n\n\n\n I got a WA from an ex this wk: <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cWhy\u2019d you leave if you loved me?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n I just thought: \u2014Sure, I did, but like Sam Jones said, \u2018I love you, but I love me more.\u2019<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n I went to WhatsApp settings, turned on read receipts, checked the message, and logged out\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n There\u2019s this Colombian saying: <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYo no pinto pajaritos.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s so me\u2014I don\u2019t pretend anything unless it feels real. \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2640\ufe0f <\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019m the condition, not the consolation \ud83d\ude12<\/p>\n\n\n\n People feel good around me bc I\u2019ve got my center locked in. <\/p>\n\n\n\n He always said I brought him peace, but baby, don\u2019t mistake stability for an eternal safe haven \ud83d\ude2e\u200d\ud83d\udca8<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you don\u2019t know things don\u2019t hold themselves up.. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Well, you already learned \ud83d\ude0e<\/p>\n\n\n\n I was watching a reel on IG\u2014yep, while writing this\u2014and it listed \u201cred flags\u201d<\/em> in women, all these bullets describing a \u201cMiss Prim and Proper.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Damn!<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Why do men keep trying to shove us into their shadows? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sure, people might think I\u2019m \u201cwifey material\u201d<\/em>, in essence, my friends could vouch for it haha<\/p>\n\n\n\n But right now? I\u2019m just chilling, scribbling some lines, and lighting a Habano like the world\u2019s mine \ud83d\ude0e <\/p>\n\n\n\n So, what do you do if you like someone but still want to keep meeting people? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Embrace it, no guilt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Liking someone doesn\u2019t mean you have to lock every door. Attraction isn\u2019t a contract\u2014it\u2019s a connection. And humans thrive on connections, not emotional jails. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lay the cards down and tell the dealer to pour me another\u2014it\u2019s on my tab \ud83e\udd43 <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re going all-in<\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ll be straight-up: \u201cI\u2019m not playing the man, I\u2019m playing the mind.\u201d<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Your reaction to my truth? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Not my prob.. I only owe explanations to myself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Don\u2019t get me wrong! In the end of the game, winning\u2019s all that matters\u2014clean conscience \ud83e\udd78<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cCommitment\u201d<\/em> is a word that bores me more than a toast without champagne..<\/p>\n\n\n\n I don\u2019t want a \u201cforever.\u201d I want a wildfire in every encounter, good conversation, good whiskey, and a good cigar, though the last one isn\u2019t indispensable \ud83d\ude1c<\/p>\n\n\n\n If that\u2019s not on the table, I walk away without a sound. \ud83d\ude2e\u200d\ud83d\udca8<\/p>\n\n\n\n *Chef\u2019s kiss*<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n My rule\u2014four dates. <\/p>\n\n\n\n No drama, no grudges, no bureaucratic feelings..<\/p>\n\n\n\n If that bothers you, answer me this: when does a three-Michelin-star chef test a recipe and repeat it more than once? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lucky you, I\u2019m not a chef, but I\u2019m a fan of haute cuisine haha \ud83d\ude09 <\/p>\n\n\n\n Babe, you don\u2019t pray to the devil \ud83d\ude08 <\/p>\n\n\n\n Promises don\u2019t move me, and I don\u2019t vibe with sweet talk trying to dress me up like I\u2019m sugar \ud83e\udd74<\/p>\n\n\n\n One thing\u2019s for sure: sensuality is my act of faith haha<\/p>\n\n\n\n Don\u2019t you mess around me..<\/p>\n\n\n\n Learn to master your emotions. \ud83d\udc7d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Bye now!\ud83e\udd2b <\/p>\n\n\n Madonna?… How many hate her? How many love her? And does she care? Not a bit! Hahah Another weird week\u2026 Not because everything went wrong\u2014La vie en rose\u2014but bc it\u2019s honestly sad to see how most people still hand over their emotional control to others like it\u2019s dirty laundry.. Even the cleaning lady wouldn\u2019t touch \ud83d\ude2e\u200d\ud83d\udca8 And look, I\u2019m not saying this from some high horse\u2026 or maybe yes haha I\u2019m no saint, and I\u2019m not here to preach. That\u2019s why when people talk about \u201caffective responsibility\u201d\u2014omg, I\u2019m gonna puke!\u2014like it\u2019s someone else\u2019s job to be \u201cclear\u201d with you, I\u2019m not buying it, not even on clearance. Affective responsibility starts with you\u2014the rest is just a delivery of excuses. Don\u2019t you get tired of seeing the same pattern on loop? That classic: \u201cThey didn\u2019t tell me what we were.\u201d Oh, baby, wake up! Wolves don\u2019t give explanations\u2014I told you in another blog post. They didn\u2019t lie to you\u2014you wrote yourself a rom-com script and expected them to play the lead \ud83d\ude2e\u200d\ud83d\udca8 Cancel that love streaming service\u2014I wouldn\u2019t pay for it again, not even for the free trial haha Yeah, it sounds harsh. This isn\u2019t a church where you stay quiet\u2014you know you\u2019ll only read uncomfortable truths here. It\u2019s like a melody cutting through the noise. One of my philosophies says: \u201cIf something doesn\u2019t vibe with my frequency, I change the station without regrets.\u201d I\u2019ll never say something I don\u2019t feel or that experience can\u2019t back up. Gossip Sesh: This week, I escaped to the ranch.. To breathe. To turn down the volume on humans. To let nature remind me that not everything runs on likes or insecurities dressed up as affection. Here nothing can be forced \ud83d\udc9a I got a WA from an ex this wk: \u201cWhy\u2019d you leave if you loved me?\u201d I just thought: \u2014Sure, I did, but like Sam Jones said, \u2018I love you, but I love me more.\u2019 I went to WhatsApp settings, turned on read receipts, checked the message, and logged out\u2026 There\u2019s this Colombian saying: \u201cYo no pinto pajaritos.\u201d It\u2019s so me\u2014I don\u2019t pretend anything unless it feels real. \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2640\ufe0f I\u2019m the condition, not the consolation \ud83d\ude12 People feel good around me bc I\u2019ve got my center locked in. He always said I brought him peace, but baby, don\u2019t mistake stability for an eternal safe haven \ud83d\ude2e\u200d\ud83d\udca8 If you don\u2019t know things don\u2019t hold themselves up.. Well, you already learned \ud83d\ude0e I was watching a reel on IG\u2014yep, while writing this\u2014and it listed \u201cred flags\u201d in women, all these bullets describing a \u201cMiss Prim and Proper.\u201d Damn! Why do men keep trying to shove us into their shadows? Sure, people might think I\u2019m \u201cwifey material\u201d, in essence, my friends could vouch for it haha But right now? I\u2019m just chilling, scribbling some lines, and lighting a Habano like the world\u2019s mine \ud83d\ude0e So, what do you do if you like someone but still want to keep meeting people? Embrace it, no guilt. Liking someone doesn\u2019t mean you have to lock every door. Attraction isn\u2019t a contract\u2014it\u2019s a connection. And humans thrive on connections, not emotional jails. Lay the cards down and tell the dealer to pour me another\u2014it\u2019s on my tab \ud83e\udd43 If you\u2019re going all-in I\u2019ll be straight-up: \u201cI\u2019m not playing the man, I\u2019m playing the mind.\u201d Your reaction to my truth? Not my prob.. I only owe explanations to myself. Don\u2019t get me wrong! In the end of the game, winning\u2019s all that matters\u2014clean conscience \ud83e\udd78 \u201cCommitment\u201d is a word that bores me more than a toast without champagne.. I don\u2019t want a \u201cforever.\u201d I want a wildfire in every encounter, good conversation, good whiskey, and a good cigar, though the last one isn\u2019t indispensable \ud83d\ude1c If that\u2019s not on the table, I walk away without a sound. \ud83d\ude2e\u200d\ud83d\udca8 *Chef\u2019s kiss* My rule\u2014four dates. No drama, no grudges, no bureaucratic feelings.. If that bothers you, answer me this: when does a three-Michelin-star chef test a recipe and repeat it more than once? Lucky you, I\u2019m not a chef, but I\u2019m a fan of haute cuisine haha \ud83d\ude09 Babe, you don\u2019t pray to the devil \ud83d\ude08 Promises don\u2019t move me, and I don\u2019t vibe with sweet talk trying to dress me up like I\u2019m sugar \ud83e\udd74 One thing\u2019s for sure: sensuality is my act of faith haha Don\u2019t you mess around me.. 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