Just because it’s difficult doesn’t mean you can’t have it. ‘Fear’ is just a word.”
Dating are tough for most guys. You go out with a girl, stay in touch, then life’s issues make you drift apart or lose touch completely. You try to rekindle the connection, call or email her, but nowadays, it’s a cold world out there.
Right now, many women intimidate men, just because they’re focused on self-improvement. Their parents raise them to be self-sufficient and face the world confidently. They’re not the kind of women who need men to solve their problems. If they have a father figure nearby, he’s their reference point for choosing who they want by their side. They’re the type of women a successful man wants by his side.
Personally, I use my social media to showcase my piano skills and promote my music releases. You won’t see me posting too many pics of my face or, in fact, you won’t find any bikini pics among my post to flaunt my body. But dear readers, you’re here because you like reading my thoughts because I’m not a girl who’s into selling herself on social media for others to explore and then forget about.. like a laboratory’s rats. I know I’m physically attractive, but I’m not a girl interested in marketing herself like a fruit at a fair. If you’re a girl and you’ve made it this far, I urge you to go against the trends and challenge the currents by not offering everything that visual platforms tempt you to.
It’s astonishing how the theme of insecurity sold by social media can affect a person so much. You have no idea what “buying” perfection can mean for someone’s mind. They no longer sell perfection in beauty standards; now they sell perfection in empty lives, parties full of alcohol and drugs. Right now, very few people read; very few are individuals you can talk to about any topic seamlessly. Very few know how to play an instrument or even listen to good music with a “good message.”
Personally, I acknowledge that there are artists whose lyrics aren’t 100% with the best message, but I believe a good research never hurts. And this doesn’t mean I don’t like parties and what they entail; it’s just that I’m not interested in repeating too much of the same.
In an interview, an artist said, “I could write about awareness, but you aim where the market is.” Hells! I like some of his lyrics, but it’s sad that he locks zeros in his paycheck. What’s sadder is that he doesn’t like doing it, but even if he doesn’t want to, he’s the role model for many new and young artists/ followers. Personally, I hope Earth brings a new Eminem to this world, regardless of his sexual preference, as we’re nobody to judge him. It’s a pity that there are so many puppets who don’t know they are.
In this post, I won’t dwell too much on each aspect; I’ll just say that you should be more critical and work on controlling your instincts because, in the end, it’s not worth it. They make you believe that no matter how hard you try, you won’t change the world; they lie! You know why? Cuz every mind is a world. If you learn to be critical, you’ll work on your mind and contribute to change. Don’t be part of the trend, don’t be part of what’s “in” just because it’s the path everyone follows.
There was a time when I dreamed I had to choose between two paths. In one of them, there were many people, and there was light because each person illuminated it. There was a shop in the center. The other path was dark and seemed unsafe. I liked something I read in a book that said, ‘The light is at the end of the path cuz you carry the light.’
I personally find superficial people boring, and I know many who are. They’ll still be my friends for fun because I think every person is special for who they are, even if they’re empty. I always find something special in people.
Just because you see something trending doesn’t mean you should imitate it. Analyze everything around you; not everything you see is what it is, not everything you hear is true. Talk only about what you’re an expert in, not because someone told you but because you judged it based on your criteria.
In previous posts, I’ve talked about how the mind works. This is a maze where your thoughts and memories travel. There are very complex minds that are difficult to understand, others are simple and can be manipulated. Be careful with very intelligent people; they can be a challenge or they can end up cornering you.
Everything I write is to help you understand people better. Returning to the initial theme, it’s for you to understand a bit more about intelligent women who sometimes seem unattainable. They’re not unattainable, but you should know that to reach them, you’ll have to make more effort because they’re not easy to impress. They prioritize differently from conventional women. For them, living happily can mean even staying alone for the rest of their lives with a pet (which could be of any species).
I really liked my time in Cancun, Mexico (I would definitely visit this place again) because they adore women and place great value on people. I learned a lot about this culture. Personally, I love traveling to learn about cultures and understand their way of thinking. This has become my hobby in recent years, and I’m even planning to spend some time in Italy to delve deeper into their culture, so carefree about the ‘tomorrow’.. So excited ’bout it!
I’ve studied a lot, work hard, so I get a real break to explore and understand their reasoning. I’m so interested that I started taking classes in this language six months ago to create a bond with these people. I have the ability to understand what a person seeks. I call it ‘reading ppl.’ I’m very analytical, and I know that when you communicate with a nationality in their language, a bond of trust is created because people appreciate when you show interest in them.
How basic would it be for you guys to face rejection without thinking about it from the start when you ask a girl out? You don’t have to go far to understand it. Do a little research and understand your target. If you can reach it, then go for it. In this aspect, it’s super important to mention that even in a world where equality is being promoted in both ways, when you date a girl of the type we’re talking about in this file, that kind of girl has access to everything she wants in life. They’re often raised with their father watching over them, and they’re the kind of girls who know how to earn everything because they were raised that way. So, if you’re dating a lady and she gives you the chance to be with her, impress her because she found something attractive in you that others lack. She doesn’t date just anyone.
Perhaps the most challenging part is not dating a girl like this cuz you can’t buy them, but that you seek to maintain contact without drifting away for too long. This kind of girl is loyal, honest, and they’ll be interested in you for who you are, not what you have. They’ll be interested in your intelligence and your thoughts once you’ve caught their attention.
If you can’t achieve that or give up along the way, then, right now, it’s a very superficial and cold world out there.
Remember, Just because it’s one way doesn’t mean you can’t change it!
Girls, if you’ve made it this far, make this the first criterion to survive in a world made for men:
‘Just because men may have invented the game doesn’t mean it’s not valid for you to think and know what you accept for your life and what you reject’
Bye now!
