“I’m selfish, impatient, and a little perfectionist. I make mistakes, I’m out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.”
This post is part of the public podcast I’ll be developing on Spotify, ‘My Secret’ by Kim Vinter. My friend Paula has asked me some questions, here are some answers:
Paula: And to have a that’s a really good looking… What is the secret?
Kim: The secret, I think just to be comfortable with yourself, inside you, you know, wherever you wear, you know, even if you wear jeans and the T-shirt and you feel sexy and comfortable inside, you will look beautiful, more beautiful than even your dress. So I think it’s just confidence with yourself and with your brighter.
Paula: What are you passionate about?
Kim: Well, I’m passionate about living life, cuz it’s the only thing that’s mine, you know, everything else I’ve achieved over the years has been cuz I’m a very focused girl.
I’m not interested in wasting my time on superficial things that lack meaning, I only whip out that stuff when I gotta clear my mind…
Also, I consider that life is not defined by love, love is a decision. Life is defined by passion; it’s that flame that moves the world, that moves your world, you know… Now, caring for that flame is love. I mean, my favorite verb in any language is ‘to be passionate’, and I get what I’m saying, and I can chat about it in differents languages, but in none of them does it have the same meaning as in Spanish 😅
Paula: You say you’re focused and passionate… give us more context to understand?
Kim: I didn’t want anything in life to be given to me for free, I mean, it was a difficult decision cuz walking without everything your family can give you takes willpower.
Very young, I read a book called “The Richest Man in Babylon” and from there this idea of creating my own path was born. So, the second thing I’m more passionate about than living life is learning something new every day, discovering the world… you know, I’m very curious, tbh..
Paula: Kim, genetically you don’t look Latina, tell us a bit about that exotic part…
Kim: Well, it seems you agree with many people who know me about that opinion of me…
I have Nordic and Latin heritage in my blood, it’s a juicy and different mix… my parents met in Miami and I’m the exotic result of that combination haha
However, I believe that beauty is not related to physical standards, you know.. I mean, I think there are profiles that require certain standards, but I have the philosophy that ‘the requirement is not the rule’.. I mean, that it’s required for a profile doesn’t mean it applies to others…
I think accepting our essence and showing it to the world is what makes us exotic/beautiful… You know, it’s what I think…
Paula: Personality/character, how does Kim define herself?
Kim: I’m a combination of Sagittarius and Taurus, So perfect for this world, hahah… just kidding!
I’ll start by saying that I accept compliments without problem. Most people associate this with ego or signs of narcissism, but that perspective is incorrect… I mean, I’m simply very confidence and that’s why I draw attention… people are usually shocked by that.
Broadly speaking, I’m too extroverted, curious, hyperactive, social, know-it-all, very cheerful, high self-esteem, very empathetic and likable. I find a joke in everything to be able to laugh, I have a high dose of dark humor… I like to go to places I’ve never been, and if I’ve already been, I only repeat for its citizens, for the human warmth they transmit… I told you before, I believe in energies… I like to set my own style, I’d say I’m genuine, I’m not interested in imitating anyone. I like to flow in life, I love those spontaneous plans.
In interactions with my friends, I’m always there for them.. you know, I think the most important value in life for me is loyalty, and well, if I establish emotional bonds, I’m very sincere. I’m never going to say something I don’t feel to please anyone.
If I had to define myself in one word, I’d say I’m HAPPY.
Paula: So, how is Kim not?
Kim: Well, I’ll never deny who I am, however, it’s likely that I won’t tell you my whole life the first day I meet you, cuz I don’t trust people easily… I don’t like to repeat experiences, share food or my comfort haha… well, although you may not believe it, a few days ago I started sharing and it was nice haha
I don’t think I’m boring, I have unconventional ideas for this society, you know, because living without fun is like a roller coaster without screams… I’m not unfaithful to anything, anyone, much less to myself… I can be too loyal to myself and therefore loyal to my philosophical beliefs about life…
Well, I’m cold/objective, but always sincere with anything I deliver related to the humanity that surrounds me.
I don’t like envy, I believe in energies and their fluidity, you know, I believe that what you give comes back to you… That’s why I’ll always encourage my friends to bring out the best in themselves, as well as those I don’t know through this blog.
Paula: Who is the most important person in your life?
Kim: My mom, my favorite Latina, and a bit difficult Gemini to deal with, but I’m think she is the person who reminds me that I must be human no matter how much success I achieve in life.
Paula: What advice could you offer to the people who listen/read you, to be able to achieve their goals?
Kim: Well friends, I don’t know the formula for success, but I know the formula for failure and I’ll tell you:
If you’re unsatisfied, stop doing the same things you’ve been doing until now, change the script.. I mean ‘a Genius who loses control of their present life will be a desaster in their future’.
Well, this was a bit of the podcast…
I close by mentioning that I’m very grateful to each one of you, my readers, and I hope to continue sharing my thoughts with you. I’m not interested in fame, my only purpose is to add a bit of positivity to your mentality.
Some time ago I attended a Guru, and he told me:
“Kim, why are you so worried about life, why are you so eager for your goals?.. I’ll give you an example: If you go to a funeral and approach to see a dead man, and you offer him a million dollars, the 10 most beautiful women in the world, do you really think that any of that which concerns us in the world while we are alive, will wake him up? Well, nothing Kim can wake him up because he no longer has life, and that’s all we have, our breath of life and if you don’t feel lucky to have it, and you don’t live it intensely because you’re thinking too much about the decisions that relieve your soul, then it will be a shame.”
Always remember that someone else’s perspective can influence you positively or negatively, however, having judgment allowed me to receive his advice positively, and I hope this also helps you.
Bye now!
