Time passes so quickly; this time, I’m writing to you, my dear readers, from my journey through the sky.
Recently, I decided to give risk a chance, and before telling you what it’s about, I want to share with you the most famous unwritten rules that impact me the last week.
1. Murphy’s Law – The more you fear something happening, the more likely it is to occur.
Be especially careful with this rule, you know, Murphy doesn’t understand reverse psychology. Take advantage of this key; if you’re going to attract your ghost, then think that most of the time, the opposite might be the right direction.
2. Kidlin’s Law – If you write a problem down clearly and specifically, you have solved half of it.
Sometimes, a problem is what we don’t accept about ourselves that we know we need to change to grow. Writing down our flaws shows us how to improve them. The worst in us should not be accepted, delete that conformist speech from your mind.
3. Gilbert’s Law – When you take on a task, finding the best ways to achieve the desired result is always your responsibility.
Life hides many secrets; the most hated by humanity is work. They’re like invisible shackles. However, we could even find pleasure in painting them from time to time so they don’t rust – that is, finding the positive side of things. When you do what you like and are good at it, you’ll never work again.
4. Wilson’s Law – If you prioritize knowledge and intelligence, money will continue to come.
Undoubtedly my favorite. When you prioritize not only the intellectual level from what you learn outside your mind but also through self-knowledge, you fill yourself with inner wisdom.
5. Falkland’s Law – If you don’t have to make a decision about something, then don’t decide.
This one certainly adds that pause to our routine, doesn’t it? Well, you know what they say: if you have to make a decision between ‘yes’ and ‘no’, but you lean more towards ‘I don’t know’, the answer is no. If you don’t have to make any decision, don’t rush.
6. That which is for you, no one can take away.
I don’t know who wrote this rule, but I learned not to get attached to things, you know, it was hard at first, but I understood that what wants to stay in my life, nothing will make it change its mind. Remember, whoever can handle you at your worst, deserves your best version.
I use the pronoun “it” cuz I believe that we are energy.
It’s interesting how these laws contain so much truth that we should seal them in our minds. The curious thing is that if it were so, it would be like the instruction manual we should come with into the world, because we all agree that we come to this world to experience trial and error…
Personally, I received a very good education, where values that are no longer so important today are still in force in my family, but no one explained these laws to me; understanding them took time. I consider myself a pragmatic person; I wouldn’t say stoic because I don’t share many things linked to the rational and physical, as I believe we are contained energy, our body works as a container, and as I said in the previous post, my mind walks the tightrope between reality and dreams, although I consider illusions dangerous, I also think they are necessary.
Last week I talked to you about happiness, which serves as refreshing water for life and cannot be a goal. Well, illusions are like the oasis in the desert, that is, this analogy suggests that it’s what you imagine and keeps you hopeful during the journey, what you long to drink, and if you find it, it quenches your thirst for an instant, but it’s an endless circle that keeps us in our humanity, fragile and mortal.
Recently I was talking with a friend, and we were commenting on how science and literature mix in astronomy to create poems as beautiful as this:
“A common point where our paths crossed was the radiant where we crafted the illusion under the starfall” -kimV-
I wrote this poem inspired once under a starry sky in San Carlos, while sitting by the pool, where the beauty of each element combined for creativity to emerge from my imagination… it was a beautiful night.
I think that in our construction of the best version we can offer ourselves, accepting that our humanity doesn’t come with instructions, that the manual is created with the passing of years, that we are an experiment of trial and error every day, you know what ppl say, no one experiments on another’s head, clearly no one learns from another’s experience, but it’s worth seeking to become a little wiser every day.
I think you’ve read me several times, I know I joke around saying I’m perfect hehe
Well, I remember that as a child, dad was always very strict with me, telling me that emotions were the worst enemy of success, that I should never allow them to dominate me, because emotions are your enemy.
While I still follow everything dad tells me about life, I also believe that no one owns the absolute truth, and my philosophy is “if you keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer”, that is, if your emotions are your only real enemy, then control them.
Perhaps reading me, you’re thinking it’s impossible, well maybe it is until your body is not the one dominating you, if I didn’t meditate maybe I would consider that you are right, however, when you manage to have the rational dominate your existence, keeping emotions leveled becomes easier.
Here’s an example, if someone slights me or at a higher level betrays me, my emotional Kim wants to return the favor, and that’s where control must enter, thinking that the other person doesn’t have the maturity in the first place not to fail me, so I stop looking at the person as the culprit, and understand that it’s my fault for getting involved at some emotional level with the person.
I once heard a podcast where the interviewee said, “life is more realistic when at a high level of consciousness, because you realize that you can no longer blame others for what happens to you”
From the first post I published, I talk about being conscious, later posts about loving ourselves first, followed by advice on self-exploration, but the essence of what I write is to offer a different point of view and that you, from your criticality, can validate each thought in your own self-analysis.
Express yourself, you are the only thing that belongs to you, your mind should control your body.
And not to leave you thinking, the risk I took is related to my emotions, okay, not only has dad talked to me about controlling my emotions, I’ve also read it in several books, in fact there’s one that says “A genius who gives in to his emotions will be a Financial disaster”, same message from dad, and my adjusted philosophy is “a genius who lets himself be controlled by his body will be a disaster in his life, the genius with mental dominion achieves any goal”
In summary and to close today’s post, in the end, learning to live with your emotions in a healthy way makes you smile at life more often.
And well, dear friends, I leave you with a reflection on my risk with limits:
Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the real one who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who constantly reminds you of how much he/she cares about you… The one who turns to his friends and says ‘that’s my real one’.
Surround yourself with positive energy!
Bye now!
