There are questions that avoiding them would save us a lot of headaches.
Thinking from another person’s perspective and stepping out of our comfort zone can be challenging.
In my opinion, people shouldn’t assume when they interact with others, and we should avoid asking questions that
“we don’t genuinely want to know the answers to.”
A healthy mind is reflected in everything we do.
It’s not that difficult to not let the actions of others affect us; it starts with understanding that we can’t control what others do and that every interaction should be a free choice.
“Human nature seeks freedom,” even though many fall into monotonous lives and believe they may never experience fulfillment.
We need to learn not to project our insecurities onto others; it is better for our minds if we work on them.
We reflect our priorities, and the difference between a wise person and a fool lies in their decisions.
Once, while talking with a friend, he insisted that we should not allow toxic past relationships to harm our essence. I believe it is not worth destroying what remains of our souls for a moment of pleasure.
Often, we immerse ourselves in the superficial and forget to take care of our mental health, engaging with people who are close to us only for what we have, not for who we are.
I thought about how many people truly appreciate me for who I am, not for my achievements, and I began to narrow my circle.
An important clarification: if you’re trying to impress me, do it with your personality, as in the end, it’s the only thing that truly belongs to you.
A person with personality, independence, and originality can easily complement someone intelligent.
I read last week that two smart people don’t entertain drama.
I believe the best feeling is not being in love but being at peace. Although I’m not a fan of casual interactions and prefer to maintain many friends, I choose to go with the flow, as no one knows what will happen.
In previous blog posts, I mentioned that relationships are like poker.
For my interpersonal interactions (as I call them, as I don’t want to be tied to any specific relationship), they are a poker game between two players, and I apply “The rule of four”.
I think we should be emotionally responsible with others and avoid creating karma that will come back to us.
It’s important to love oneself without falling into narcissism. There’s a thin line we must tread to maintain empathy towards others.
I don’t seek to be superficial, nor do I want others to appreciate me solely for my appearance.
Recently, I went out with a friend who seems not to understand that if we attach ourselves to the physical, life will strip away those attachments to teach us lessons.
Typically, for that reason, I don’t get attached to anything.
I want to be free, happy, and sleep peacefully, with no one and nothing else on my mind but my inner peace. Peace cannot be bought; it is built.
It’s a simple equation:
Every decision that maximizes our well-being is proportional to the increase in our self-esteem.
Once, a friend said to me “I want to find that person again who, when I see him, I just want to throw myself at, referring to the physical aspect.”
Wow! I thought, this guy still doesn’t understand the science of relationships, but well, I’m not going to teach him. I believe each person must have their own experiences; good or bad, they shape us and provide lessons better than any teacher.
In conclusion, Let’s try to shift our focus away from superficial appearances and concentrate on what others offer, excluding possessions.
Anything else?
I think when we prioritize ourselves, everything else falls into place.
Let’s embrace ourselves.
Bye now!
