How exciting to be able to converse with you, my readers, for another week!
I will begin with a phrase that I decided to make my purpose since January 1st:
“If you can make at least one person smile a day, you’ve succeeded.”
And another phrase that I read from a Russian novelist and philosopher, Leo Tolstoy, this week, which literally says:
*Доброта сделает тебя самым красивым
человеком в мире.
Независимо от того, как ты выглядишь.*
Translation:
“Kindness will make you the most beautiful person in the world.
No matter how you look.”
Sharing these quotes with you because they’re the foundation to explain everything life taught me this week that I wanted to talk to you about.
The past week was filled with situations that I always interpret as adventures, you know, my favorite thing in the world is being able to reconnect with people I thought I had forgotten or meet new people to not miss the old ones who are definitely no longer here.
I don’t think my New Year’s resolution is that hard to fulfill.
When I get the chance to see someone smile because of one of my spontaneous remarks, it really brightens my soul. I’m a person who, you know, although born with many gifs in life, doesn’t look down on anyone based on their social class.
I love chatting with anyone because, regardless of their social status, they can offer me something new to learn. If you read my previous blog post, you know that learning new things is the second thing I enjoy the most.
So this week, the cleaning lady from my apartment, to whom I gave some red fruits from the farm, told me she made a cake with them and brought me a little piece to taste. These are the details that make my life brighter, you know because, in their simplicity, she wanted to give me that as a token of appreciation for my initial gesture, all while handing it to me with a smile.
So, You know that ppl say “hell is full of good intentions”..
How tiresome it is to deal with people who like gray areas for everything..
I’m a girl who is very clear about what she wants in life, you know, if something feels right to me, I won’t think twice about it. I enjoy bringing all my ideas into the physical reality, you know, which is my favorite plane 😜
‘There is nothing more amazing than the simplicity and clarity of things that are truly important in life!
It amuses me cuz recently someone asked me why I’m still single, well, ironically, it’s because here and now I declare myself a hopeless romantic 😂😂
Seriously, I’ll tell you that my concept of love is too real for this world full of falsehood. Sadly, after various tests on men from different perspectives that I, as a woman, can interact with, I confirmed that the concept of ‘good men’ is fictional.
Women have filled its meaning with many expectations, and no matter how hard guys try, they can hardly fulfill it completely.
So, why? You might ask
Well, for me, no man is born bad; unfortunately, they get damaged along the way. It’s very hard for a man to resist temptations. I have a philosophy, ‘Don’t fight temptations, surrender to them,’ you know, because it’s a matter of men instinctively being willing to give in to anything as long as it doesn’t bore them.
So, I’m still single because I idealize love, I understand the male reasoning too well, I don’t flow through male energies, although my independence makes my girl friends think that yes..
I like boys, but I haven’t met one who deserves my love 😂😂
When I say I idealize love, it’s because I’m not part of feminist beliefs (although I respect their perspectives cuz everyone has the right to think and desire to receive the expression of attraction from others with similar preferences to theirs). You know, I love the traditional concept of love, and I don’t mind carrying the burden of being feminine and embracing my sexuality. I believe that beauty and femininity cannot be invented, and they certainly don’t have an age.
Anyway, I’ll tell you that I’m not currently looking for a boyfriend, but whoever wants to try, I’ll probably let myself be conquered😄
Just imagine, you know, how exciting the adventure of conquering my mind can be, because whoever doesn’t find the key in that labyrinth will hardly enter my heart😆
This is funny! Sometimes I think I should be a poet, and that’s saying something considering I don’t watch many romantic movies.. However, I am in love with life and all its powerful things.
So, with this little explanation, I tell you, girls, there’s no such thing as a bad man, only a man who got corrupted along the way. And guys, you’re not bad; give in to your trip of temptations until you get bored, you know, then decide to polish yourselves, not under an ideal of a perfect man created by expectations, but polish yourselves to create your best version.
The same goes for girls who still don’t want to leave their singlehood!
Why? Because b**ches broken hearts!
I believe that in this life, there’s nothing better than being single and enjoying it until one gets bored.
Last week, a friend was telling me, as we were debating perspectives between boys and girls, you know, discussing the concept of being a womanizer.
He said he didn’t understand why women complained so much when they currently do the same. I responded, ‘What a sad argument you’re using. Let’s see, a man can be with as many girls as he wants, and no one will call him a ‘w*ore’ for it, plus, his body won’t undergo physical changes because of it. Sadly, we live in a world that is neither kind nor fair to women.’ I think many girls turn that vulnerability into their strength because they don’t victimize themselves.
Nothing bores me more than a ‘good romance’—no emotions, no kisses, no conversations. I believe a romance should have the emotions of a healthy crime. You know, a relationship without opportunities is terrible.. I mean, hearts are not made of plastic.
Let’s not be the reason someone becomes sarcastic about attraction interactions.
Let’s not be the b**ch of that story.
Let’s always be clear about what we want from someone with whom we’re going to have an attraction interaction.
No one is an option; everyone is exclusive for being themselves.
No one should deal with dramas due to insecure decisions.
August Strindberg, Swedish writer and playwright, once said:
“Den verkliga tragedin i livet är när människor är så fästa vid det förgängliga
att de glömmer sig själva.”
Translation: ‘The true tragedy of life is when people are so attached to the impermanent that they forget about themselves.’
Human beings are selfish by nature, often projecting the famous red flags onto others, arguing that it’s just their personality. They go through life worried about what will perish but benefits them, never looking outside themselves with empathy. Until one day, someone comes along who matters to them, and even then, even when they care about that person, they hurt them and behave in ways they wouldn’t truly want, just because they seek a way to feel comfortable with themselves again, even though that person cares for them.
This is the result of so many arguments that genders point at each other, similar to zombies eat hearts.
This is like a “zombie” representing ppl who inflict emotional damage and the actual act of zombies eating “healthy” (emotionally well) ppl.
I loved an analogy used by a pilot friend. He said, ‘Never live too long in a city because some can make you too tough and others too soft. Accept an inalienable truth: all free souls find a city to retire to.’
Let’s be responsible for our actions in attraction interactions. From my perspective, no guy with some wisdom would say or promise something he won’t fulfill to a woman.
I’ll conclude by saying to the guy from the future that maybe I don’t know him yet, didn’t seek, and conquered me: 😜
Don’t ask me for a kiss? Just keep stealing them from me. 💟
And to everyone else, I leave something to ponder this week, with the sense of rhythm that vibrates for the reason we’re in this world:
What weighs more, love or death?
Weighs more? Life, ofc. I adore the delightful contradictions in themselves.
Love and death are a glamorous contradiction.
Bye now! 😽
