Hey dear readers, one more week TG
Today I went for a bike ride cuz, you know, handling so many projects at once after a stressful week is tough.. And well, I got injured training on Friday…
I’ve been living in a constant FOMO since I can remember with my goals haha
Normally, we focus on such trivial matters and completely lose ourselves, forgetting to interact with our first love, self-love.
When I need time for myself, I get away from everything, either out of town or I go for a bike ride, because it’s the most alive feeling that I am enjoying my space, which I feel is super important for me to connect with myself..
So, I know we all need to interact with other people, but spend time alone to ourselves is like gold. Give it a shot and let me know how enriching it becomes…
Being conscious of what we do with our time is a step towards self-awareness.
Time? What is time but a reflection of who we are, it is the creation of our mind about what we want brought into reality.
You know what the French playwright and philosopher ‘Jules Renard’ wrote:
“Dis-moi ce que tu fais de ton temps, et je te dirai ce que tu deviendras.”
“Tell me what you do with your time, and I will tell you who you will become.”
Friends, we are time itself. Anyone who claims we belong to time hasn’t philosophized enough about life.
It’s curious because sometimes I sit in front of my laptop with no idea what I’m going to write, just collecting topics I’ve been philosophizing about during the week and then developing them here.
Why am I telling you this? Because sometimes we waste who we are… If there’s something you want for your life, whether it’s one thing or many, invest your thoughts and direct your actions towards it. Realize that everything correlates between the meaning of life and the thoughts you create. What you end up pursuing is who you become, whether you’re aware of it or not.
Deep introduction, I know, but I couldn’t delve into such a controversial topic without a few moments of seriousness haha.
I chose this topic cuz I love philosophizing about controversial issues that spending so many thoughts.
What is a flirtationship?
It’s being more than friends but less serious than a relationship.
This week, I was telling some girls who asked me for love advice
“Don’t let someone who left your life without being kicked out
come back without being invited.”
The idea that no one wants to take emotional interactions seriously has become very popular, and honestly, I don’t see it as a bad thing, as I’ve mentioned in other posts on my blog. However, I firmly believe that we should stop hiding our intentions just because we really like the person looks while we’re interacting with.
Let’s be honest, the first thing we notice is a person’s physical appearance, and for many, it doesn’t matter if the other person is more than just their looks—that’s where the dilemma begins..
We love the show!
Personally, I love attention, I’ve been doing it for almost three decades, but I’m not good at creating drama when I interact with someone emotionally…
I’ve learned various topics, sports, entertainment activities, and languages to have meaningful conversations and shine because I pursue dreams, not love.
I have many friends around the world, thanks to the opportunities I’ve had to visit other places, whether for work or education, and when I tell them I understand why people no longer want to establish deep emotional bonds, it’s because we live in a glass world.
There are many options, and everyone live in a constant emotional FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out).
I insist, this isn’t bad.
Personally, having had the opportunity to interact with so many people around the world, I’ve matured a lot on this topic. I was never someone who wanted to be with everyone who seemed attractive to me. I was blessed with many physical and mental qualities, which from a young age exposed me to dealing with many people who found me attractive.
This allowed me to set clear boundaries for what I wanted from interactions with others. I know this isn’t something you learn overnight, but it’s worth starting to put into practice.
Today, I can tell you that I have friends, and I know which ones are attracted to me for something more. However, I mainly know that when I’m interested in someone, I don’t usually play games in the dating scene with tricks.
However, I won’t be hypocritical—what I think, I say. Unlike most people who worry about what others will say, I couldn’t care less about what others think..
If I’m interested in someone, I let them know without much ado, because why waste time?
There are no saints walking the earth, dear readers..
Expressing ourselves clearly, setting our boundaries, not ghosting (I haven’t perfected this skill yet) makes us responsible individuals in emotional interactions.
Illusions are dangerous things, my dear readers
Figuratively, if you’re a rainbow and the other person is colorblind, find a way to blend these differences, otherwise it’s better to let go, not to cling.
This metaphor allows us to understand how integration can sometimes be achieved and other times must be let go of when it comes to matters of attitude, not physical traits.
There are two poisons in the world: “expectations” and “obsessions“.
The first creates false illusions; expectations are formed in the mind of someone who places everything they expect from someone onto a person who is unaware that these thoughts are being projected onto them.
The second poison makes you chase after something that isn’t meant for you; you become desperate to attain this obsession, using any excuse disguised as an idea to draw it towards you. These are just shackles in the chain of woes you build.
The outcome of this can be harmful to both parties, not to mention to third parties involved.
Avoid these toxic actions!!
Be the reason someone else feels welcomed, attended to, listened to, valued, loved, and supported. No one is made of plastic for a half-hearted romance.
I conclude by offering my perspective on this topic, I have a ninja mind; I notice everything, analyze everything. I know what benefits me and what doesn’t. When I find myself in a toxic environment, I cut it off at the root. I never lose sight of who I am; my time and my mind are aligned. I know what I want, and I don’t waste a minute on something that doesn’t add value to me.
When you reach a point in life where you feel like you’ve completed the GTA (Grand Theft Auto video game, often used to imply you’ve experienced everything and overcome all missions your avatar was created for), all you want is peace.
I’ll close with advice: Sometimes we get involved with people without knowing where the emotional interaction is headed. We may even fall into anxiety, wondering “if not now, when?”
But we must learn that we can’t force others to want the same things as us. What we can do is focus on what we want for ourselves.
Let’s not chase after people! Let’s chase after our goals!
As I always say:
“Even kisses leave marks,
kisses are indelible imprints on someone else’s lips “💋
This time, bet on yourselves! 😉
Bye now!
